New posts every day on the blog.

Read it

Meet my husband, Kyle Littel

The kid everyone calls difficult is trying to tell you something.

Kyle helps teachers, church teams, and parents understand what behavior is really saying, and what to do about it tomorrow morning.

Kyle and Cassie Littel on their front porch

HOPE-certified kids pastor. 15+ years working with children and families. Host of the Reclaim Family Podcast. Trusted by schools, churches, and parent groups.

Why your room will love him

Kyle has been in your seat.

He knows the classroom on a Monday, the kids’ wing on a Sunday morning, and the kitchen table at bedtime. He has served churches, Christian schools, and family-focused organizations for over 15 years.

His trainings pull child development and trauma-informed care together into plain, practical tools, not theory your team will forget by Friday.

  • HOPE-certified kids pastor and educator
  • 15+ years working with children and families
  • Churches, Christian schools, and family organizations
  • Host of the Reclaim Family Podcast
  • Dad of four

The brag-worthy part

What your people walk away with.

Every session is shaped around your audience and ends with tools people actually use the next day.

01

A new lens

For the behavior they see every single day, in class, in kids’ ministry, and at home.

02

De-escalation steps

They can use in the moment, when it matters most.

03

Connection before correction

Language that reaches the kids who need it most.

04

Next-day strategies

Not binders on a shelf. Tools your team tries tomorrow morning.

Speaking & training

Built for your people.

Keynotes, PD days, volunteer trainings, and parent nights, all built on one idea: behavior is communication.

For schools

Professional development

Teachers, paras, admin & support staff

  • Behavior Is Communication
  • The Kid Everyone Calls Difficult
  • Connection Before Correction
  • Regulation, Escalation & De-escalation
  • Supporting Anxious & Overwhelmed Students

90-minute PD · half day · full day · keynote

For churches

Kids ministry & volunteers

Ministry teams, volunteers & pastors

  • The Kids in Your Church Are Trying to Tell You Something
  • The Kid Who Won’t Sit Still
  • When Big Feelings Walk Into Church
  • Building a Trauma-Informed Kids Ministry

Volunteer training · staff workshop · guest preaching

For families

Parent nights

Hosted by your school or church

  • Raising Kids in an Anxious World
  • Anxiety, resilience & regulation
  • Discipline, connection & identity
  • Technology, faith & independence

One evening · big takeaways for every parent

Kyle sitting with kids during kids ministry

In the room, doing the work

Every kid deserves an adult who understands them.

Bring Kyle to your school, church, or event, and give your people the tools to be that adult.

A note from Cassie

I have watched Kyle walk into rooms full of kids other people had given up on and win them over in minutes. Fifteen years in, he still lights up talking about the kid everyone else calls difficult.

He is the dad our four kids adore, the pastor volunteers actually want to learn from, and the speaker I would book even if I weren’t married to him. But I am, so you get the honest version: he is the real deal.

– Cassie

Kyle and Cassie with their four kids

Now booking fall and spring

Bring Kyle to your school, church, or event.

Send a quick note about your group, your date, and what you’re seeing. Kyle shapes the training around your people.

Book Kyle to Speak

Clearer thinking for work that matters.

Short, useful marketing ideas. No fluff. Unsubscribe anytime.